100 Words of Wisdom: Amy Harrington (2013)

Parenting an asynchronous child resembles piecing together a 1,000-piece puzzle with missing pieces and no picture: a confusing, unending roller coaster that is exciting, challenging, and daunting. Appreciating the gap between cognitive ability and functional performance requires compassion, understanding, and individualized approaches to parenting and education.

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Parenting an asynchronous child is like doing a 1,000-piece jigsaw puzzle with missing pieces and no image. It is a confusing roller coaster ride that never ends. It is exciting, challenging, and daunting. To appreciate the disparity between what the mind thinks and what the body can execute while being expected to tow an invisible line that seems arbitrary is a stark reality for gifted families. Fostering the unique social emotional needs of a highly asynchronous child requires compassion and understanding, as well as an individualized approach to parenting and education. One size rarely fits all.

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