Advice from parents of gifted children emphasizes loving them for who they are, setting realistic expectations, encouraging progress over perfection, allowing safe failure, fostering peer connections and communication, respecting solitary time, promoting consistency and cooperation with schools, and modeling balanced self-care.

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“What I learned from parents of gifted: Love these students for who they are, not what they do. Have realistic expectations. Expect progress not perfection. Give them freedom within limits. Allow them to fail. Put them in places where they can meet others like them. Respect their time alone. Create an atmosphere that promotes communication. Catch them doing something right. Encourage sibling synergy rather than rivalry. Choose your battles. Be consistent with your discipline. Work cooperatively with the schools. Keep your sense of humor. Be role models in the way you meet your own intellectual, spiritual, physical and emotional needs.”

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